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Moderator: Vijay Mehta
22 35 Mar 19th, 2012, 3:24pm
by Vijay Mehta
In: Pictures - Dimpesh & Swati Engagement & Wedding
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No one that I know of anticipated the crisis that is now looming over our community. When they were growing up we were confident that with proper education and successful career our beautiful children would have no difficulty finding a suitable spouse whenever they were ready. They for the most part kept their end of the bargain. However we are not able to able to come up with even semi decent prospect for them who are willing to commit. Our community, by and large is behaving like a deer caught in the headlight.

Some things have gone horribly wrong. Just as we say that "diabetes is a silent killer" - gives you few if any indication of something is wrong while damaging every system in the body for a long time. This inability of our next generation to find a suitable mate in time and make the transition to the next phase of life will severely damage our future.

Unlike diabetes the solution (early detection and effective management) does not lie in a laboratory. It is time for our community to get a wake up call. Time to rid ourselves for those outdated concepts that are holding us back, time to think out of the box, time to stop blame game and look for what can be done.
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50 161 Jul 6th, 2012, 08:23am
by Vijay Mehta
In: Infrared Dating
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Vagar Taluko near Bharuch has shown the leadership by separating the good activities of Swadhyay (which they loved) and corrupt Central Command from Didi & Party.

They celebrated Manushya Gaurav Din - celebrating 96th birthday but mindful that Yogeshwar is still the God. You see Yogeshwar in all the pictures - Dada in some and Didi in none!

It is about time different Krutisheel get in action to save the movement.
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11 3740 Mar 6th, 2018, 7:58pm
by Vijay Mehta
In: Shahid Shri Pankajbhai Trivedi
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Dr. Jayant Patel has been painted as one of the worst human being by politicians and media in Australia. He has been named "Dr. Death" A book has been written about him, a movie may be in works. Australians want him back so he can face the justice.
But as you read carefully you wonder, is he really this big monster? Do Australians want justice or revenge? Are they looking for real villain or they want a scapegoat?
I encourage everyone to start a real dialogue. You may post your views here by emailing me at
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65 278 Nov 14th, 2013, 07:49am
by Vijay Mehta
In: Dr. Patel Most of the Charges about to be dropped
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16 65 Aug 11th, 2010, 9:37pm
by Vijay Mehta
In: Fraud & Abuse at Central Texas VA

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Desi Life - Good Bad and Ugly
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Discuss issues pertaining the dark side of desi culture, things we do not like to discuss or admit.
You can not change what you do not acknowledge. Let us acknowledge that we need to make some changes and suggest how that changes can be brought about.
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488 1978 Jan 28th, 2014, 6:42pm
by iwitness
In: Kinjal Patel, baby sitter killed toddler,New Haven
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Here you will find stories of Desi who are victimized.
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129 378 May 30th, 2013, 12:44pm
by iwitness
In: Trupti Patel's Killer arrested after 7 years
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No award ceremony is complete without over representation of our community members. For the Fifth time in last seven years one of Indian child takes the most prestigious award - National Spelling Bee Champinoship.
Moderator: Vijay Mehta
32 37 Jun 4th, 2013, 08:10am
by iwitness
In: Sneha Singh(18) appointed to U.S.Military Academy
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As our community takes center stage in many different areas of American life it was matter of time we were going to make mark in political system in this country. Recently Bobby Jindal made news by becoming the first Indian American to be elected the Governor. And that too from the State of Louisiana - home of KKK!
Moderator: Vijay Mehta
25 44 Dec 22nd, 2011, 9:04pm
by iwitness
In: Vivek Bavda to run for US Congress
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We have come a long way in last four to five decades. Our professional, financial and educational success is unbelievable. "To whom much is given much is expected!" there are so many of us doing something to pay back to the society and help the others. Please post your story and experience here - this will guide and inspire many others.
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7 7 Sep 21st, 2010, 2:18pm
by guest
In: India third most powerful nation: US report
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25 49 Jul 8th, 2012, 10:22pm
by ctrivedi30
In: TV Show for DESI
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Positive and negative aspect of Desi culture as it relates to growing up in USA
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24 170 Jul 4th, 2012, 11:22am
by ctrivedi30
In: FOB who became ABCD
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Discuss Desi night club scene we never talk about
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13 141 Jun 2nd, 2010, 9:06pm
by guest
In: Monkey doesn't forget tricks even if it gets old
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We invite others who have their own blog about Desi life here.
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Helpful hints for getting into med schoool
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21 60 Apr 8th, 2016, 5:05pm
by Vijay Mehta
In: Sorry state of Medical Education in India

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Ask Vijay Uncle
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If you have any questions to Vijay Uncle you may post it here. You could ask about any thing of interest such as "confused desi; dating and mating; desi melodrama in relationships; arranged marriage or deranged marriage, bone marrow issues, medical school admission issues or anything else."
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91 206 Jul 26th, 2012, 12:58am
by Texan83
In: Infrared Dating
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Sapna Magazine has asked me to pen a column answering questions from their readers. It is not possible to give a detailed answer in a magazine. So this thread is started with a hope of inviting your follow up questions and comments along with detailed explanations from me. Feel free to express your views. I reserve the rights to remove or edit anything posted here to keep the garbage out!
Moderator: Vijay Mehta
2 2 Oct 9th, 2008, 2:53pm
by Vijay Mehta
In: Fighting the two battles

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This board is for topics regarding issues dealing with bone marrow drives or other events.
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114 201 Mar 12th, 2013, 08:51am
by Vijay Mehta
In: Boost to the cord blood donation funding
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Post your comments, suggestions or problems related to the website or message board.
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4 17 Jul 21st, 2011, 06:54am
by guest
In: How about poll?
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11 32 Sep 15th, 2013, 09:06am
by iwitness
In: Sir Anna Hazare movement for INDIA now or never
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Here are the details of wedding celebration and family reunion.
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1 5 Mar 24th, 2012, 9:37pm
by Vijay Mehta

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A record turn out at the event by Pratham USA and Gujarati Samaj - raising more than 10,000 dollars for Education in India, addressing the issue of generation gap and enjoying the thrillin performance by Babra and Party with Raas and Garab!!
Moderator: Vijay Mehta
1 11 Sep 12th, 2004, 09:11am
by Vijay Mehta
In: How did the evening go ???
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With 4000 desis in a nice hall for four hours with five bone marrow professionals ready to draw the blood, I flew to DC to inspire the crowd and .. only 2 people registered. The worst drive in the my life! want to know why?
Moderator: Vijay Mehta
2 13 Sep 21st, 2004, 09:44am
by Vijay Mehta
In: Bhangra and Bone Marrow at Bayou Bhangra
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Please post your tribute to Sudhaben and you may also post any questions you may have.
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30 37 Nov 24th, 2005, 9:25pm
by lakshmi
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I have never understoos why Bapoo never recieved the Nobel Peace prize. Now as some information is made public I feel sorry for the committee that could not see what most us are able to see - Mahatma was personification of Nobel Peace Prize whether committee gave it or not.
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1 6 Sep 4th, 2009, 04:29am
by tinker
In: No Nobel Peace Prize for most noble man in history
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Discuss the Net IP Convention here. We shall post the convention highligts and discussion that is generated from the presentations.
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6 9 Jan 4th, 2007, 06:31am
by Vijay Mehta
In: Oh..!! At Last, I find your site again..!!
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Preparation are underway for NetIP 2006. Since I am going to be in Chicago during the labor day weekend, contact me if you want to plan any event in the area
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3 19 Sep 22nd, 2006, 11:10am
by Me
In: Net IP 2006
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Open Forum
14th Bienneial Jaina Convention will be held at Edison NJ, July 5 -8. Discussion forum for participants to share their comments and concerns.
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18 38 Jul 22nd, 2007, 12:25pm
by Vijay Mehta
In: is there a better process for speed dating?
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First ever Lad Professional Convention will be held at The Grand Hyatt, New York, NY on July 27 & July 28, 2007. I will be addressing these professionals on July 28, 2007.

Now, every other group like Jains, Telugu, Leuva Patel, Charotar Patel (you name it and they are doing it) have been meeting for decades or more now. Why the group that boasts Dhirubhai Ambani and Gandhiji as one of their own is so far behind is a mystery to me. I am going to try to find out.

If you are a LAD youth I strongly recommend come join us for this historic event. The committee promises me that this will be a weekend to remember! Register early and spread the word.
Moderator: Vijay Mehta
1 1 May 14th, 2007, 12:34am
by Vijay Mehta
In: LAD Professional Convention
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Here is an unfortunate turn of events. Priya Ramnath, a junior resident is confronted with a patient in septic shock. She allegedly gave higher than prescribed dose of life saving medication. Now 10 years later she is put behind bar - away from her family and two young children, judge denies the bail - is this justice or intimidation. Once we make the medical errors a manslaughter would it turn away talented people from our profession. Because everyone knows that inspite of the best of education training and intentions the mistakes do happen. Do you know when you join the medical school that you may spend some time in the jail?
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2 85 Apr 28th, 2010, 9:55pm
by SR
In: Dr. Priya Ramnath
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31 year old Dr Mrinalini is working on a book to increase awareness of Gays & Lesbians in Desi community here and back home. Please share your views.
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3 5 May 5th, 2011, 09:55am
by dewanand
In: India's tolerance to trangenders and homosexuals
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As we celebrate the Father's day, we should also focus on making sure that fathers of tomorrow will be up to the challenge in this new enviornment.
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1 8 Feb 20th, 2009, 11:48am
by anonymous
In: To the fathers of new millennium
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6 10 Jul 12th, 2009, 08:21am
by Vijay Mehta
In: Keynote address by Parag at SPSC Convention
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LPS National Convention will be held at Opryland Hotel, Nashville, TN
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5 6 Jul 18th, 2009, 2:18pm
by Vijay Mehta
In: Audio Podcast of 20/40/60 open Forum
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Net IP holds it first ever convention in Canada.
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5 11 Sep 28th, 2009, 10:44am
by Vijay Mehta
In: Infrared dating why and how ?
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Time has come to go next step in cyber match making. Let us use what has worked for centuries and apply current technology.
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4 19 Apr 4th, 2007, 08:54am
by BluntNdN
In: Premartial Sex In Desi Community
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This is a restricted area only those with permission may view or post in this blog.
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1 1 Oct 3rd, 2010, 12:54am
by Cal Doc
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Biennial YJA Convention will convene in New Brunswick, NJ. This is the largest gathering of Jain youth in North America. It gives a great opportunity to Jain youth to learn about our culture/ religion and network with others.
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2 2 Jul 4th, 2010, 06:34am
by Vijay Mehta
In: Message sent to all those who are serious at JNF
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The Youth Convention is in the process of being planned for July 30, 31, and August 1, 2010 at the Hyatt Riverfront in Jacksonville Florida. Register to day if you have not already done so.
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1 2 Jul 17th, 2010, 3:19pm
by Vijay Mehta
In: To all CLPSS Attendees
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BMM Convention on July 22- 24, 2011 at McCormick Place, Chicago featurs innovative program for those who are at a stage to settle down. Check out the detail information and post yoru questions or comments
Moderator: Vijay Mehta
1 3 Jul 28th, 2011, 06:31am
by Vijay Mehta
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After three successful reunions in India, batch of '65 had their first reunion outside India - Miami FL! Three days on Royal Carribean and two days on Miami/Key west was an unforgettable experience for all. Now, next reunion in UK - Europe!

Planning is started details will be posted here. Also find the photographs and video from our USA reunion here.
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2 2 May 23rd, 2017, 4:48pm
by Vijay Mehta
In: Poll for reunion

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