Message sent to all those who are serious at JNF
« Thread started on: Jul 4th, 2010, 06:34am »
Welcome to my mission in changing the paradigm in desi spousal search and bring some sanity to the process.
As you know I am on a mission to give a wake call to our entire community and sound the alarm bell that inaction is not an option. We may be witnessing the deterioration of ‘Desi Family Life’ as we knew it.
This is a grass root movement and from time to time I would bother you to help me spread my message. Also it is important for you to know that I am an ‘out of box thinker’ so it would help you to read about or listen to my radical thoughts posted here and on my own blog.
Over the last 9 months I am humbled by the support from all of you who have help energize me in my mission.
Seriously looking people behave differently. They are always focused on the mission. I am working on how to identify others who are also seriously looking and you can bring conversation to much higher levels than usual ‘hi how are you?” At this time those who have said they are seriously looking have a separate picture taken with me and that should be your hint. It is ok to approach them and ask, hey are you seriously looking? And if the answer is affirmative feel free to talk to them and use my infra red dating ideas in learning about the core of that person.
Join me on Face Book Vijayuncle = First name and Mehta = Last name Or search me by firstname.lastname@example.org Post your profile for others in JNF who are serious to see: I have opened a private album on the face book. Only people who are able to see them are those who are at JNF and have posted their profile as seriously looking. Post your profile to see others. Review your profile and feel free to contact who in your opinion seems like a match. Here is the template http://vmehta.conforums3.com/index.cgi?board=marriage&action=display&num=1269553584 -------------------------- Spread the word: If you know others who are seriously looking bring them to me and we shall add them to our list. -------------- Let us feel free to approach others who may be seriously looking: If you see anyone you might be interested in point them out to me and I will politely approach them and find out if he/she is open to talking to you also. ----------------- Pay it forward: Suppose someone approaches you who is seriously looking but in your eyes he/she is not a match for you than do a good deed by recommending who may be a perfect match for him/her. I want this to be a ‘people helping people’ movement. -------------------------- Those who are seriously looking can join me on the face book letting me know how they found out about me and use my email address email@example.com to find my profile. --------------------------
My Blog which can be read by anyone at http://vmehta.conforums3.com/index.cgi?board=marriage -------------------------- For the past nine months I have been reaching out to those who are seriously looking and are frustrated with the process. I am here to provide any help I can all you have to do is contact me. If you are now is serious mode let us discuss your strategy for success and re evaluate the progress or lack thereof periodically.
I am also giving wake call to those who are in window shopping or comparison shopping or just casual dating mode - once you reach a certain point in your life it is time to move to the next phase of life. Procrastination does have serious consequences.
If you have question or comment about anything feel free to contact me at firstname.lastname@example.org. Since I have no life I am usually pretty prompt in responding to you.