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xx Barbaadi versus Vijay Uncle.com
« Thread started on: Mar 25th, 2010, 3:56pm »

Why Desi Men and Women go to Barbaadi.com but are afraid to post their profile with Vijay Uncle?

I get some of my best feedback from posting issues on my status to draw the attention. I will post them as notes so you can easily find them. Feel free to add your views. Some of the key points may be copied and added to the main note. It is about time we discuss all these issues. No single answer will be applicable to all of you but slowly and surely a pattern will emerge and we as a group will change our behavior.

Vijay uncle is questioning the logic of his beloved 'seriously looking' group. If you have ever posted your profile in any of the match making sites, you already put yourself out there as someone who is looking. Then why you hesitate posting your profile on my seriously looking album? Can someone please enlighten me? At least on my album you get a free catalyst and people who are looking are real people whom I have met or known thru someone.

May be I should post your profile ID from those websites. Trust me uncle has his ways of finding it out. Anyone out there who knows the profile ID please forward me in a private message!!! Let us come out of the closet. When you are looking for the best co parent of your future children – there is no shame in admitting it. This is more a targeted marketing than random fishing you attempt at the barbaadi.com.

Shashi Reddy: The problem with Facebook is that many people have professional contacts as "friends." And unless they are strictly restricting their privacy settings (which doesn't always even work), everyone in the office and their professional contacts will have a window into their private lives. It is hard to maintain professional respect in such a scenario.

VijayUncle Mehta
That is a good point Shashi. If you are willing to have the profile viewed by other Desis but do not want to have outsiders look at it please send me a message. We are actually working on a website that would only allow the profiles to be viewed by other registered members only and we will even kick out some phony members if we find them.

VijayUncle Mehta
To those who are not comfortable with everyone - including your outside contacts know about what is going on - send me a private message with first line stating 'please share this information with those who are seriously looking but not for posting." and use the same format (see my notes) at least this way if some right person came along I can let them know.


VijayUncle Mehta
I just went on Shaadi.com and put my search criteria as "Hindu Female in USA 25 to 34" and all it took was for me to press Enter button and more than 600 girls showed up on my desktop. Some of them were familiar faces!!! I checked their profile and these 600 had visited Shaadi in past 32 hours!!!


Bryan Simpson
Mr Mehta : are you supporting the US desi only? What about the European Desis. i have plenty of Indian-European friends who are seriously looking for a good match without any success.

VijayUncle Mehta
Bryan right now I am trying to figure out how to motivate and move these Desis in North America, who have personally gotten a wake up call from me. Once we figure out a system that works I would be more than happy to come to Europe and give European Desis a wake up call.

On a side note I got a call from a writer from Gujarat yesterday and he is translating the message for Indian Desis too!! This may turn into a global movement - who knows?


Nishita Shah
Vijay Uncle, Keep doing what you are doing. You are in fact recreating a place where members of your friends community can go and search for their partners in a safe place. I think what you are doing is a great service to us.

Mrinalini Gadkari
Is this group/offer open for all? Straight as well as gay?


VijayUncle Mehta
Why not? They are just as much entitled to happiness and my help in finding it. Gays & Lesbians are also welcome to join. We will have a separate album for Gay and Lesbians.
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« Reply #1 on: Mar 25th, 2010, 3:57pm »

10. Barbaadi is a business with the ultimate goal of making money which depends on selling a product (lots of contacts) regardless of how genuine they are. Vijay uncle is a coolest Desi uncle on a mission and focused on your needs.

9. The basic tenet of Barbaadi is, “if you with ten times more prospect you are likely to make a better choice.” The basic tenet of Vijay Uncle is, “fix your product, set realistic goal, look beyond the curb appeal, do not invest too much in unsure or unsettled. Your prospective spouse may be closer to you than you think.

8. In Barbaadi you will meet 25 or more losers per every reasonable prospect. With Vijay uncle the losers are weeded out because you can give your negative feedback.

7. Barbaadi may get you a contact, who, may not be genuine; while on Vijay uncle it is hard to fake it since you get to see their facebook profile, all the friends, and lots of pictures and even then if you have doubts call us and we shall find out for you.

6. Barbaadi costs you $100 or so per year, Vijay Uncle is free, we desi people love FREE stuff!

5. When you meet through Barbaadi you have no control of the process. If the other party decides to string you along you may be helpless. With Vijay uncle we are goal oriented with a timeline and if there is no progress we simply move on.

4. Barbaadi makes you focus on curb appeal while Vijay uncle gives you a wake up call and gets you to focus on looking at the total package.

3. With Vijay uncle.com you get real people who are willing to put their information out there without any excuse for everyone to see – that means less chance of false information.

2. Barbaadi will never tell you if your expectations are too high, while Vijay uncle will love to bring you to the ground level.

1. Barbaadi has no catalyst while Vijay uncle has a help line open for you.

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